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Like most people you also probably wish to improve yourself, achieve certain goals, be rich and happy etc. What you need is a guide to help you in your quest for self improvement. Self help is a category rife with many fraudulent, self proclaimed self improvement gurus who propagate numerous techniques. Most of the techniques propagated by these gurus are useless at best. The most effective self help techniques are those that are based on psychiatric research.If so, please visit: manifesting techniques.

 Although it might seem contradictory but our personality and our conscious selves are based on our subconscious mind. The personality is a result of the experiences stored and processed by the subconscious. You have to make changes to you subconscious if you want to change your personality as a whole. Only by being patient and diligent can you succeed in reshaping your thoughts and your personality, do note that you won’t experience any changes overnight, it is a gradual process.

 Some very effective self help technique include manifestation techniques, affirmations and the use of the ‘law of attraction’. These techniques, when practiced, enable one to master their subconscious and once you do so you will be able to unleash your true potential. Manifestation techniques can even help you get rid of low self esteem issues and help you enjoy a better life. For more information, visit apply the law of attraction.

 The law of attraction is a technique that when followed will enable you to live a richer and happier life. You do need to practice the technique to master it. The following steps will help you in practicing the law of attraction. The first step is relaxation, you need to be still and relax your body to the maximum extent possible. Defining your desires is the next step thereafter you visualize your objectives. You need to visualize your goals repetitively and intensify your desire with each iteration.

The final steps involve feeling and expressing gratitude for all you are blessed with no matter how large or small. Have faith in yourself and trust the cosmic powers and you will experience the power of manifestation. For the best results you should combine these self improvement techniques with deep meditation and regular writing.

Help! 

You know, men question me about " seducing a woman" and "how to date women" and similar topics incessantly.

But honestly the best answer for all of these type of questions is "experience."

But of course the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?

You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can  for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the topic. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.

And when I wrote my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.

First of all, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.

And I am not talking about people who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.

However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and constant interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.

Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.

Unfortunately, there is a big difference between “acceptable” and “ideal” and also unfortunately most people ordinarily continue this pattern of hooking up with the first “acceptable” person who comes along well into maturity.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us. 

Most of us didn't even understand our own personality and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of Television and movies and magazzines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done. We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.

Mom and Dad’s teenage words of wisdom are good for everyone – or at least a lot of us. There are people who know what they want and don’t need to serial or multiple date to figure it out.